Advice on getting married in the UK from ASDA
How to get married
So you’ve spent time getting to know your partner, you’re certain they’re the one for you and you’re ready to take the plunge and make your union official. But once you’ve chosen a ring, popped the question and they’ve melted into your arms, what’s the next step to matrimonial bliss?
Why have a religious ceremony?
First you’ve got to decide whether you want a religious ceremony. It could be the full works with a church, white wedding dress, page boys, bridesmaids and all the hymns, flowers and fanfare a girl could ever want; or you may prefer a low-key event.
If you want to be married in the Church of England or Church in Wales, usually the first step is to speak to the vicar of your chosen church. Some churches only allow couples from within the parish to get married there, so check this out. At the very least you’ll be expected to attend church in the run-up to your big day - and not just for the dress rehearsal!
If you wish to have a religious ceremony other than in the Church of England or Church in Wales, you should arrange to see the person in charge of marriages at the building. Again, it may make things easier if you live in the same district as the church or religious building. You should also give formal notice to the superintendent registrar at your local register office and you may have to find your own vicar or equivalent to carry out the service. You will need to bring at least two people who can sign as witnesses at your wedding. But for most couples the place will be packed to the rafters with family and friends, so this won’t be a problem.
Why have a civil ceremony?
If a church setting isn’t for you, you may opt for a civil ceremony. This can be done in any registry office or building approved by a local authority, often at a fraction of the cost.
Venues used for such an occasion include stately homes and other prestigious buildings, hotels, restaurants and even outdoor spaces such as beaches or parks.
You’ll first need to formally give notice of marriage or notice of civil partnership. On the day of your marriage or civil partnership, you’ll need to bring at least two people who can sign as witnesses.
A civil marriage ceremony is not permitted to include religious content, but you may be able to arrange for personal touches such as non-religious music and readings to be added to the legal wording, and for the ceremony to be captured on video. The register office or venue where you intend to marry will be able to tell you more about the options available.
A civil partnership is legally formed by the signing of a civil partnership schedule. Like a civil marriage, this is also non-religious, but couples who wish to arrange for a ceremony should discuss this with registration officials.
What next?
Whichever route you choose, after you return from your honeymoon and start preparing for a long and exciting life together you may want to consider financial protection. On getting married, many couples take out life insurance and critical-illness cover to protect their partner if tragedy strikes. This is especially important if you plan to add to your family and hear the patter of tiny feet anytime soon.
